Oh my God!
I tend to get depressed
Instead of getting angry,
but I can still hate.
And so at a young age
I hate God
And I hate Religion
And I despise
All those stupid motherfuckers
Who believe
In god.
I mean,
Jesus fucking Christ
Are you kidding me?
Some fucking patsy died for my sins?
I’m 7 or 8 years old
in Virginia
It’s a warm day
and the light filters in
to the church
as I shit on the floor.
Not one witness
To my disdain, distaste and venom.
My hatred is alive.
And I say Fuck You!
But I’m not angry.
What I sadly come to understand
Years later
Is that act of hatred,
my big statement,
my scatological venom
that I leave steaming on the church floor
Has no effect on god
No effect on religion
No effect on the church.
The only one affected by this shit
Is pushing the mop.
The poor janitor
who has to clean it up.
So, dude,
I apologize
on bended knee. Seriously.
I meant you no wrong.
I’d clean up your shit today
If it would make up for it…
3 years later
and my friend Jim
just doesn’t show up for school one day.
Turns out
He just stopped living –
Ceased to exist
Died in a car wreck
The night before
Wrapped around a tree
with his brother
who was driving
and who survived
and how the hell
does he live with that?
I’m at a loss as to
how to live with it.
How to make sense of it.
Shit don’t make no sense.
There’s a big gaping whole
Where once there was my friend.
There’s no one I can talk to
Not my family
Not my friends.
I pick up the bible
And find another book of stories
That aren’t too easy to read
For an 11 year old
looking for some answers
To some big fucking questions.
But there are no answers
So I’m left at a loss
And keep this locked inside
Until right now
And though it never makes sense
I slowly come to accept
that loss and death
are part of life,
just as life is part of death.
And it’s only in our minds
That they separate
only in our minds
do they become opposites,
staring each other down
across the void of intellect.
Looking for answers
Of a spiritual nature
And finding none,
I soon find the next best thing.
Sweet baby jesus.
I find spirites.
And so begins the fight
Of and for my life.
Because the spirits
And the powders
And the gasses
And the grasses
And the tablets
And the smoke
And the rocks
And the liquids –
They all give me relief.
They don’t give me answers.
They just make the questions go away.
They Give life meaning
And they take it away.
As more and more
people around me start dying
From these spirits
I end up feeling
That the friends
I lose along the way
are the lucky ones
because they found a way out.
And I’m still stuck
Here in this god forsaken place.
This place with no god damn answers.
Don’t get me wrong,
It’s not all doom and gloom.
Not all Sabbath, Bloody Sabbath.
I have lots of fun along the way.
Like James Brown said, I feel good.
Sometimes the light of the spirits
Fills my being.
And at times I live for the
Darkness of despair.
Because it feels so true and honest.
I find the joy
of having sex
In church
Somehow there is a special thrill
Of fornicating in the pews
Or in the choir area
Specially with Donna,
Who was brought up
A good catholic girl.
Donna has snakes at home.
2 nine foot boa constrictors
When I sleep over
in Forest Hills
I wake up in the morning
To find the 2 boas curled
Under my head.
Donna and I eat apples
For breakfast.
In the mid 90’s
I’m Snatched out of
This god forsaken place
Some would say by god
But not me
I have to call it
A family intervention.
Whatever it is,
My cycle
Of destruction stops.
Destruction of self and others
Destruction of morals and mortals
Destruction of ideals and beliefs
Destruction of history and future
My destruction of everything in my path…..stops.
And though I no longer
Shit on church floors
Or fuck like a pagan
as jesus looks on,
I still stay well clear
Of anything that hints
Of god, religion, or spirit.
I place my trust
in machines
And the smell of sweat.
I have faith
In Human toil and turmoil.
In the asphalt under my feet.
Years go by.
I become things
I never would have imagined.
And I become happy.
For a while.
But eventually I find myself
Yearning for that familiar hell
Missing the seeming truth
Of despair
My sanitized life
Seems like a ruse
A fiction
And I convince myself
that the sad truth is
I wasn’t born
To be happy.
I was born
To live life on the edge
I was born
To be on the edge
The edge of suicide.
That’s what feels true
So I open that door once again.
3 years later
while contemplating
the distance
from the Tappan Zee Bridge
to the water below
I fall apart
I fall right in to god
Right through god
Though I didn’t call it that
At the time
Fragmented in to little pieces
Like the sun glistening on the Hudson
Sobbing, shaking
I realize with a smile
I’m just a tiny fucking speck
Just Here for a second…
In five minutes
My fear departs
Fear I’ve held for a lifetime
Fear that was in my marrow
Fear that I was taught as a kid
Fear that felt so fucking real
Fear that kept me safe
It just dissolved in to smoke
And I was held
And now I know
Whatever happens
It’s okay.
When loved ones die
When I die
When the dirty bomb hits the city
When birds fall from the sky
When the tea party takes over
And when the ice melts and the seas rise
It’ll be okay.
All my plans
My designs
My desires
My wants
Don’t matter at all.
Relief. Finally some fucking relief.
I’m still allergic
To the patsy who dies for my sins,
Still allergic
To any religion that wages war
In the name of god,
Still allergic
To those saying
Thank god my god is god
Still allergic
To any religion that says
we have the right to
weapons of mass destruction
and you don’t.
Still allergic
To the whole us vs them
Mentality of separation
That underlies all dogma.
Still allergic
To right wing right for lifers
Still allergic
To televangelists
Praying for you
To send them your money
Still allergic
To god fearing Christians
Cause fear doesn’t have a place in this.
So I find
That once again
I don’t get answers
And the questions
Have been revealed
to be unanswerable.
And honestly,
I’m relieved.